So, I figured I would start out by writing about when my kids were born, since they are kind of the title of my blog! I tend to forget things, and since I'm sure this blog will turn out to be more or less like a journal, I could just remember them here.
Lucas Dee Christiansen
Born August 2nd, 2010 at 1:13 pm
4 lbs 1 oz at 32 weeks 15.5 inches
He later dropped to 3 lbs 11 oz
The morning I had him I remember thinking that it was getting time to start "getting cute" in the mornings in case I went into labor early. We knew from the beginning that I was at risk for pre-term labor due to several things. Well, I went into labor before I had a chance to shower and do my make up. Dang it! I didn't feel one strong contraction, maybe a few small ones I barely remember, but I had some intense back labor!
It went on and got worse for about an hour or so before I decided to call my doctor's office. They told me to come in as soon as I could (I already had an appointment scheduled for that day). When I finally got back to a room and saw my OB, he checked and was surprised that I was dilated 5 cm already! This was in Rexburg, but we knew we wouldn't be delivering there since the hospital is not tertiary care for cardiac patients in case anything went wrong with my heart (congenital defect, double valve replacement, murmurs in all 4 valves...). So, my doctor said, "I'll call ERIMC," (East Idaho Regional Medical Center in Idaho Falls about 45 minutes away) "they may try to stop labor, but probably not since you are already dilated so much."
My doctor just send us on our way down to Idaho Falls and says as we are heading out the door, "Don't worry. Babies born this early have a great survival rate." Okay... thanks? Levi is driving through construction while I'm on the phone calling family to let them know. By the time we got to the hospital and checked by the on-call doctor, I was dilated to about 7 or 8 cm. We were definitely having a baby that day!
Everything went by so fast. I was prepped for a c-section since Lucas was transverse, and there was no way of really turning him due to my heart-shaped (bicornuate)/septate uterus. It was also the opinion of my cardiologist and the OB that it would be easier on me to just opt for a c-section. I agreed. Surgery is no stranger to me, so I was fine with it. I soon went back to the OR, was given a spinal, and started going numb immediately. They brought Levi in, and he sat next to me and just held my hand the whole time.
When Lucas was born, they tried to lift him up over the sheet for me to see him, but I only caught a glimpse of his little foot before they whisked him away to the NICU. His apgar scores were good... an 8 and 9 if I remember right. He came out screaming, so he continued to breathe alright on his own, but since he was so premature, he still need assistance from Cpap. He was in the NICU for exactly 5 weeks. (Those were long weeks.) He started out with just 1 mL of formula. After about 3.5-4 weeks, we were all ready to take him home. He was doing great; we brought the car seat in one day to do the car seat test, and one of the neonatologists (the one I didn't like) informed us that he had a pretty bad desat (drop in oxygen) earlier and it would be at least another week before he would be able to come home. That was the worst day. The neo then said, "Well, he wasn't due yet anyway." Really?? That's not the point. Well, Lucas's hematocrit/red blood cell count was low, so we decided to do a blood transfusion, and that really helped. He did come home in the next week or so around 5.5 lbs.
This is my favorite picture of him the day he was born
Olevia Dawn Christiansen
Born November 13th, 2011 at 11:21 am
4 lbs 4 oz at 35 weeks 18 inches
She later dropped to 3 lbs 13 oz
Oh, no. Pretty sure I knew I had overdone it when I started having contractions the night before she was born. I took it pretty easy most days during my pregnancy with her, but was feeling so lazy and useless that night. I got a bit of a nesting kick, and I started cleaning! I started the laundry, I did the dishes, I fed Lucas, bathed him, tried to put him to bed early (so I could sit down and try to get rid of the contractions or see if I could time them)... but the contractions kept getting stronger. Levi was at work, but I had been txting him on his Lunch break (at 8 pm since he was on a swing shift), and I told him I may go to the hospital if they didn't stop. His mom actually called me to see how I was doing. I thought Levi had told her to call me, but he hadn't. She was right on time, because I was getting worried. I had her come home just in case, but told her I would call Amber, my sister in law, and her husband to come watch Lucas and take me to L&D since Levi had our only car. Marcos, Amber's husband, watched Lucas (because he, of course, wouldn't go to bed), and Amber took me to the hospital.
Lucas (15 months at the time) knew something was up. I eventually took him out of his crib before Amber and Marcos got there, since he wasn't settling down. I just got him out and sat on his bedroom floor. He walked over to me and just laid his head down on my lap and hugged my legs. It was super cute, but also scared me because this was the moment I knew something was really going on!
When I got to the hospital they put me on the monitors. I as still contracting, so they gave me a shot of Terb to stop them. Thank goodness my doctor was the one on-call! He knew my history, knew how to handle the situation, he had been seeing me every week for a while... The Terb worked for a while. I was only dilated 2 cm, so my doctor opted to send me home to rest with another shot of Terb since we were only about 10 min from the hospital (it was around midnight by then). He said he knew I would rest better at home, but to come right in if anything felt off at all.
Levi left work and came to the hospital. We left around 1:20 am, I ate some leftover pizza when we got home, and I went to bed. I slept until about 8 am when I woke up to contractions. This was all so weird to me since it was completely opposite from my labor with Lucas. With him, no contractions, just back labor. With Olevia, no back labor, just contractions. Weird.
Anyway, the contractions kept coming (I didn't time them), and after about 45 minutes of them we decided to go back in to the hospital. Levi's mom, Dawn, stayed with Lucas, and Amber and Marcos came back over to watch him while she went to her church meetings (it was Sunday morning).
My OB, Doctor Jacobs, was still on call until Monday morning (yay!), so he came in to check me and I had progressed to 4 cm dilated. He made the call to do the c-section asap. Via was also transverse, and I was not a good candidate for a VBAC. Repeat c-section it was! Again, I was prepped, IVed, taken into the OR for a spinal, and Levi was brought in a little after my doctor started cutting. Apparently someone forgot to bring in Dad! This time, Levi watched the whole surgery. I was pretty jealous! Doctor pulled Via out bum first followed by her legs and then head. I was informed that my uterus was "paper thin" and was very lucky that I didn't rupture.
Via came out kicking Dr. Jacobs! I knew she was a feisty one! The nurse was aware that I didn't really get to see Lucas before they took him, so she brought Olevia around the curtain so I could see her face first! Once Via was cleaned up and stable, Levi was taken back to see her. The NICU filled out a card with her info and footprints on it that Levi was able to bring back to show me while I was being sewn up.
After I was out of recovery, I was able to see her before going to my post-op room. She was 3 weeks older than Lucas was, but only 3 oz bigger because she developed IUGR (intrauterine growth restriction). She only measured in the 1st percentile for her head and abdomen the week before she was born. I'm convinced that's why I went into labor. My awesome uterus just wouldn't let her grow anymore.
Her NICU stay (she is currently still there as I write this, but should be coming home in a few days) will only be about 2 weeks. I wish I had thought to do this with Lucas, but here is the link to the Facebook page I created for her updates and progress... and pictures!
This is my favorite picture of her a day or two after she was born
So, the question now is " are we going to have any more kids?" Probably not! Between the NICU stays, the paper thin uterus and my health issues... I don't think I will be birthing any more 4 lb babies! Adoption? Possibly.
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